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When was the last time you did something restful? Something that allowed you to take a break, switch off from the daily grind, forget your worries and feel truly relaxed? If you’re struggling to remember, you’re not alone.
Claudia Hammond is an award-winning broadcaster, author and psychology lecturer, who says rest is something we all need to do more of. You might know her from All In The Mind, BBC Radio 4’s psychology, neuroscience and mental health podcast – or Health Check, her weekly show on BBC World Service. I spoke to Claudia on episode 95 of my Feel Better Live More podcast about her fascinating new book, The Art Of Rest, which examines the science behind our struggles to relax. In it, she argues that we need to stop thinking of busyness as a sign of success – or feeling we’ll be judged as lazy if we take some time out. During our chat she shared some brilliant insights on our attitudes to downtime, the activities most likely to help us switch off, and what the benefits are for our health, wellbeing and productivity.
Rest means different things to each of us. For some, it might be sitting down with a magazine, for others it might be a hobby or craft. Many of us even find it’s getting active, perhaps going for a walk or run, that’s most restorative. Interestingly, although perhaps not surprisingly, using tech doesn’t feature in the top 10 restful activities listed in Claudia’s book (gleaned from a large-scale global survey she was involved in). We discussed why this might be, and concluded that using our phones, tablets and laptops at home often just feels like an extension of work. Tasks like booking tickets or scrolling social media can be enjoyable, but not restful. All the form-filling, ‘invisible tasks’ and ‘life-min’ we have to do on screens just eats into potential rest time.
Claudia and I spoke in particular about the appeal of listening to music, watching TV and reading – how each of them can be used consciously and strategically to help us unwind. Personally, I love sitting down with my family to connect over a good film or TV show and talking to Claudia has made me determined to do it more often and to appreciate it as quality time. I also loved her idea of a ‘vinyl club’, where you get together with some likeminded music fans and listen to an LP together, in full, then chat about it afterwards. As a music fan, that sounds like my idea of bliss and worlds apart from the instant gratification of streaming songs in a random order.
We also discussed the modern-day fear of boredom, how many of us find it hard to do nothing, and why daydreaming is never a waste of time. Instead, when your mind wanders as you’re listening to music or even reading, that’s part of the experience. Lots of studies suggest daydreaming is your mind’s way of making connections, consolidating and organising your thoughts, practicing for future experiences – and it’s great for creativity.
If you need a reminder of why rest is so important – as well as permission to do it, without feeling guilty – I highly recommend you pop in some earphones, kick back and give our chat a listen – #95 Why You Need More Rest with Claudia Hammond.
In the meantime, here are six of the key recommendations Claudia shares in the podcast:
In my latest book Feel Better in 5 I talk about how to put aside 5 mins a day for restorative and relaxing activities such as a walk in nature or 5 mins of ‘Flow’. I also have a whole chapter on Relaxation in The 4 Pillar Plan for further tips on how to add more rest time into your day.
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